Tuesday, April 1, 2008

Girl Talk

Help! I need a female friend who actually would at least pretend she wants to hear my girly problems. I feel a lack of female companionship, especially when things get rough in the 'ol boyfriend department. I have a few girl friends but I don't see them often, and the ones i do see often have some kind of issue with boys and get annoyed everytime i bring up my boyfriends name. My sister seems to be the only one who will listen to me, but I feel embarrassed telling her problems like that, like she will log it away in her brain to use as a weapon in the future of sisterly conflicts. And of course, the guys aren't very interested. They seem to take my problems as evidence of a lack of compassion for THEIR problems (WIM - Whoa is me). Instead of having someone to listen and give advice it becomes a "well look at all the things happening to ME" type conversation. I feel like I always end up being the listener and never the teller... and in the end having alot to say and no one to say it to.