After an increase in dramatic events and many a rant to my current bf, his immediate feedback is "if she was a guy I'd tell her to fuck off and then we'd go out for drinks. Girls are so dramatic." Although a stereotype I do feel it carries some truth. All the way up until high school I mostly had male friends, and the female friends I had were in the same boat. Our biggest problem was having parties or gatherings that wouldn't end up being sausage fests - something apparently not desirable for hormone saturated high school boys. For the most part, the same is true today (except that the boys don't mind if girls are at the party or not). The only difference is that in my university years I've had a few new female pals... and every one of them could win some kind of Academy award. I've had to deal with "feelings" (some arising from speculation derived from trivial pieces of information and great imaginations), and topics I feel unworthy of serious talk (like the length of time between phone calls for example. wtf.). Obviously there could be other factors than just being female, but for the sake of simplicity I'll just say that none of these crazy things would have happened between male friends. The worst between-male drama I've heard of so far is one guy secretly losing trust in another after he was lied to... ok understandable. Even male drama usually has a female co-star. Basically this whole blog is just me trying to extrapolate reasons for my own issues that are not in my control. What can I say... it's a girl thing?
Luckily this stuff is old news that keeps getting recycled in my brain, like a game to see how many new derivatives I can make from it. Right now everything seems to be quite alright. Even my skin is beginning to clear up!! Yay! Here is the link to the Skin Science website: Click here. If you plan on checking it out tell her I referred you! :-P
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